She was a child when she was violated.
She was told to keep quiet. Tacit,it was.
Brought up being told that her genitals were a bad place.
At three,she knew that they had to hidden away.
Ashamed.
She told her that it was a game.
It was many years later,that she realised when she knew about it all,that her cousin was the first to assualt her.
Years more,it took for her to sort out her feelings and accept her violation at a tender age.
It made her who she was in part.